Coast to Crest Trail, west of the Pacific Crest Trail |
The man sitting across from me
looked at his wife then turned abruptly back towards me asking, “Why are you
alone?”
Stunned, I sat silently, trying
to better understand the question by studying his mannerisms. I had just
emerged from a week solo hiking in Death Valley and was re-hydrating in Shoshone,
a small town that serves as the “Eastern Gateway” into the Valley.
“I mean,” the man continued,
glancing at his wife. ”I don’t understand why a woman like you…” She kicked him
under the table.
OH. That’s where he was going
with this line of inquiry. Women who travel solo hear it often. I hear it in
almost every destination where I stop to mingle with other travelers. From men and from women, but, mostly from the
guys. Understandably, because though women travel and always have, those who do
it solo, especially those who do it primarily on foot solo, are a rare breed far and few between. And, also
because solo adventuring historically has been viewed a man’s thing. You know,
when his cave just isn’t big enough, or when it’s just too darn close to
civilization.
My answer usually goes
something like this: “Well, it’s not necessarily my preference to trek solo. I
didn’t plan to be a single woman most of my life. Things just worked out that
way. And, if given the choice of not going
where my heart leads me just because I’m single or to go alone and suffer the
moments of loneliness, I’d take the latter. Obviously.”
I say all this smiling, to ease
their discomfort, when sometimes I’m railing inside. Because, truthfully, if I
had been born male, no one would be asking me such questions. If I had been
born male, people wouldn’t feel worry or pity for me. They’d be slapping me on
the back, envious, thinking me some sort of awe inspiring wild man they wished
they had the balls to be. I’d be a hero even though I’d be breaking the Boy
Scout Rule—don’t hike alone; practice the buddy system.
Yet, that’s the key. Not many people, male or female, would
choose to travel alone. Even less would consciously choose to embark with a
trim pack into the wilderness for months at a time. Yet, there are those of us
who do make that choice. Over and over again. Willingly. Gladly. And it’s the
rare incident that leaves one of us stranded in the wilds, dangling in a deep ravine
by a wrist caught beneath a wedged bolder.
Some solo female trekkers have authored books, encouraging other
women to see something of the world on foot—with or without a partner. Others fade back into their private lives having
received little to no public recognition for their accomplishments, pleased to
have fulfilled a dream, to have done something worthwhile in their otherwise
uneventful lives.
We all know that historical
personages such as Sacajawea and Harriett Tubman logged thousands of solo miles
during their lifetimes. Yet, there are
modern women of all ages who have done the same whose names are not as commonly
recognized.
Numerous women have made a
coast-to-coast run for a host of reasons. Fewer have walked the distance for any reason. In fact, only a few dozen women
have completed the Triple Crown, hiking America’s three major vertical trail
systems in their entirety: the Appalachian Trail, the Continental Divide Trail
and the Pacific Crest Trail. One of the first to tackle any of them was Mildred Norman Ryder who died while
making her seventh cross country trek for peace at the age of 73.
Ryder, a former flapper from
New Jersey, had a vision. She wanted
to give her life to something beyond herself. Having forfeited her husband due
to her deeply rooted pacifism and his diverging convictions, she would spend the
last 28 years of her life walking from the Atlantic to the Pacific and back
again. From the Korean War through the Vietnam War. Always walking. Always for
peace.
In preparation for her first
cross country trip, Ryder thru-hiked the Appalachian at a time when it was
virtually unheard of for a woman to spend months alone in the woods walking--just
for the sake of walking. She diverged off trail and hiked a good part of the
long trail while she was at it. Considered the first female AT thru-hiker, Ryder
was a woman on a spiritual quest, not out to realize a dream or break records.
On the AT she learned to live
simply, in harmony with nature, regardless of conditions. She learned to apply
that same simplicity when back home in order to retain the state of grace on a
daily basis as she had achieved while out on the trail.
When she embarked on her first
trip across America at age 44, she wore a t-shirt with “Peace Pilgrim” printed
on the front, and “Walking Coast to Coast for Peace” on the back. She carried
nothing but what she could fit in her pockets--no additional clothes, no water,
not even money. Although after 25,000 she stopped counting the miles, it’s been
estimated that by the time of her death, the Pilgrim had actually walked 43,500 miles.
Ryder lived by a motto to”
remain a wanderer until mankind has learned the way of peace, walking until I
am given shelter and fasting until I am given food.” A gal after my own heart, Ryder
aimed to give more than she got, dedicating her life to selfless service. She,
literally, walked her talk and, in so doing, attained a following of fellow
pacifists. World peace, Ryder discovered, begins with self peace and her Steps
Toward Inner Peace is now considered a spiritualists classic.
Many of her quotes circulate the web today, thirty years after her death.
Though not all pilgrims, there
are other female long distance walkers worthy of mention. Helen Thayer goes down in
history as having solo trekked Death Valley, the Sahara and the Gobi deserts. If those extreme places weren’t enough, she
also tackled the arctic. Alone.
Named one of the world’s Great Explorers of the Twentieth Century
by the National Geographic Society, Thayer, walked alone to the North Pole
when she was 50 years old, and at 63, she ambled the Gobi. Originally from New
Zealand, all her treks have been accomplished without guides or support teams,
let alone camera crews. As you can imagine she would, this 5’3” woman packs
some heat on her wilderness adventures. Magnum Winchester rifles to be precise,
which certainly helped when faced with a hungry maternal polar bear with two
cubs while in the arctic.
A national luge champion for
the U.S., Thayer has climbed some of the world’s highest mountains and paddled
solo down the Amazon. She is the author of three books: Walking the Gobi: A
1600-Mile Trek Across a Desert of Hope and Despair; 3 Among the Wolves:
A year of Friendship with Wolves in the Wild; Polar Dream: The First
Solo Expedition by a Woman and Her Dog to the Magnetic North Pole.
For
others, their treks saw no boundaries. For those women, it would be the world
they’d traverse--foot by foot, mile by mile, country by country.
Blonde
hair British beauty Ffyona
Campbell started walking around the world at sixteen. Eleven years later,
at age 27, she became one of only four people to have circumvented the globe on
foot, and the only recorded woman to ever have done so. American Polly Letofsky took to her heels a few
years later, cutting Campbell’s time in half.
Covering
19,586 miles on four continents in 11 years, Campbell crossed through war zones,
past land minds, survived a village stoning and an attempted rape to return
home and eventually write three books about her global circumnavigation: The Whole Story; On Foot through
Africa; and Feet of Clay: On Foot through Australia. Campbell’s grueling
promotional schedule established by her sponsors succeeded in her breaking many
time records established by her male predecessors. It also succeeded in her
fudging about 1,100 miles that she claimed to have walked in America, but
didn’t. After her public confession, the earth-trekker returned to the States
to redo on foot the miles she had previously traversed from the comfort of her
sponsor’s van.
Granted,
she hadn’t contended with unfortunate delays such as being mugged and shot by
Afghani bandits as her American predecessor David Kunst had been, or murdered
as his brother and hiking partner, John, unfortunately was. She had simply been a young woman a long way from
home fearful of losing the financial backers that were making her childhood dream
a reality. In the last book of her world voyage trilogy, The Whole Story,
she tells, well, the whole story.
Five years after barefoot
Campbell reunited with her parents in northern Scotland, Letofsky left Colorado
to schlepped 14,124 mile through 22 countries over the course of five years. Walking
for breast cancer awareness, she was greeted everywhere she went by survivors
and supporters who hiked miles with her, sheltered her, and fed her. She
managed to raise more than $250,000 towards breast cancer research, and half
the proceeds from the sale of her documentary GlobalWalk continues to fund breast cancer awareness. Her moving memoir,
3MPH: The Adventure of One Woman’s Walk Around the World, won Best
Memoir at the Writer’s Digest 2011 Book Awards, among others.
Women like these should be
added to the history books, as should the women who came before them. Because
truth be told, back in 1876 when the Appalachian Mountain Club was first
created 10 percent of the membership was female. Back in the girdled nineteenth
century, major publications followed the careers of unbridled professional
female pedestriennes, as they did
male athletes, supporting them when
more conservative rags accused the women of being brazen violators of the socially entrenched Victorian morals.
Always the proverbial Eve and given the times back then, governments began preventing
public displays of female professional sportsmanship. The age old myth of feminine
frailty persisted.
Persist today, in fact, when women
mile pushers constitute only 6.5 percent of Triple Crowners. Although only 20
percent of thru-hikers today are female, and long distance hiking and endurance
adventuring is still a male dominated field, more and more women are hitting the trails. Some have
attempted and completed the Triple Crown having walked 2,100 miles on the AT,
3,100 miles on the CDT, and another 2,600 miles along the PCT. Though not all
who complete the three trails apply for recognition, a total of 196 hikers have
received the Triple Crown Award. Thirty of those have been women. And until a few years ago, only a few men had
completed all three within a single year. With that benchmark now met by a
woman, women—young and old—are earning the Triple Crown in tighter and tighter timeframes.
Not that we’re in a race. Women
have always understood clearly where they stand, despite the history books and
social restrictions. Men and society will someday catch up. In the meantime, we
continue to be inspired by those branching out, blazing their own trail. And,
inspirational figures are pivotal to those wanting more from their lives
because when all is said and done, we are tribal beings, always needing
permission, if not also approval, to be the people we were born to be, to bound
beyond barriers.
All it takes is one to spark change; one
woman, one foot step. Others, inevitably, will follow.
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